The Trauma Of Women Veterans
The Women's War - Sara Corbett - Iraq - Soldiers - Women - Abuse - New York Times
This is an excellent article by Sara Corbett, New York Times, about the effects of war and the military in general on women soldiers. More than 160,000 women have been deployed in Iraq and Afghanistan, compared to 7,500 in Vietnam. Today, 1 in 10 soldiers are women.
The effects of war on women is unknown. However, the stories of these women are compelling. The women vets we have worked with in Returning Warriors retreats bear out that women not only have to deal with the stress of war, but also the betrayal of their men comrades who are supposed to help and protect them.
Betrayal and Assault
From day one in boot camp, new soldiers are taught that they must view their fellows as family, to rely on each other and take care of each other. Such trust is imperative in a war zone, especially in a fire fight. With this background, rape looks a lot like incest.
''It's very disconcerting to have somebody who is supposed to save your life, who has your back, turn on you and do something like that,'' says Susan Avila-Smith, the director of Women Organizing Women, an advocacy program designed to help traumatized women navigate the vast V.A. health-care and benefits system. ''You don't want to believe it's real. You don't want to have to deal with it. The family doesn't want to deal with it. Society doesn't want to deal with it.''
Tina Lee, a psychiatrist at the V.A. Palo Alto Health Care System in California, works with both male and female PTSD patients. She points out that traumatic experiences in childhood may increase the risk of developing PTSD when exposed to another trauma in adulthood.
''So you have young women joining the military who have the profile of being victimized, who don't have boundaries sometimes,'' Lee went on to say. ''And then you have a male population that fits a perpetrator profile. They are mostly under 25, often developmentally adolescent, and you put them together. What do you think will happen? The men do the damage, and the women get damaged.''
The article notes, "A 2003 report financed by the Department of Defense revealed that nearly one-third of a nationwide sample of female veterans seeking health care through the V.A. said they experienced rape or attempted rape during their service. Of that group, 37 percent said they were raped multiple times, and 14 percent reported they were gang-raped. Perhaps even more tellingly, a small study financed by the V.A. following the gulf war suggests that rates of both sexual harassment and assault rise during wartime. The researchers who carried out this study also looked at the prevalence of PTSD symptoms - including flashbacks, nightmares, emotional numbing and round-the-clock anxiety - and found that women who endured sexual assault were more likely to develop PTSD than those who were exposed to combat."
"Two years after deployment to the gulf war, where combat exposure was relatively low, Army data showed that 16 percent of a sample of female soldiers studied met diagnostic criteria for PTSD, as opposed to 8 percent of their male counterparts. The data reflect a larger finding, supported by other research, that women are more likely to be given diagnoses of PTSD, in some cases at twice the rate of men.
"Experts are hard pressed to account for the disparity. Is it that women have stronger reactions to trauma? Do they do a better job of describing their symptoms and are therefore given diagnoses more often? Or do men and women tend to experience different types of trauma? Friedman points out that some traumatic experiences have been shown to be more psychologically ''toxic'' than others. Rape, in particular, is thought to be the most likely to lead to PTSD in women (and in men, in the rarer times it occurs). Participation in combat, though, he says, is not far behind."
Corbett does note in the article: "There were women, it should be noted, who spoke of feeling at ease among the men in their platoons, who said their male peers treated them respectfully. Anecdotally, this seemed most common among reserve and medical units, where the sex ratios tended to be more even. Several women credited their commanders for establishing and enforcing a more egalitarian climate, where sexual remarks were not tolerated."
IsolationAmong the many striking things about women traumatized by war and the military is their isolation. It is as though their distrust of others transfers into distrust of themselves. Some may spend weeks or months unable to sleep with their partners, alone in their home and unable to socialize, or simply appear uncertain of what to do next and hopeless.
Many find it difficult to discriminate between people who are "safe" and those who are not. One woman in the article, as well as one who participated in the Returning Warriors retreat for women in February 2007, described this as her "people picker" being broken. If you can't tell who to trust, it is safer just to be alone.
Some women in treatment described their experience: "how they lived before treatment - one with security cameras and a security fence at her house, another locked away in her apartment, several having lost their marriages and distanced themselves from their kids. ''They said: 'You don't want this life. I would give anything to go back to when my trauma was new and to get help with it.'"
We will be creating another retreat for women soon. Let us know if you are interested.
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